Going back to the thinking in this post, there has been a development.
Being deliberate should lead to being accidental. At least that's what I think.
I'm seeking transformation. Not on it's own, but still. I want to pray in the same way that I breath in and out; naturally, automatically, fundamentally. I want to pray and serve and study the word because I want to.
To get to that point, I will have to be deliberate. In my deliberate choices and practices I believe God will transform me.
That, leads me nicely on to 'Spiritual Disciplines'. Something I am currently thinking about...